You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
Brother Pete is selling his 1989 Jeep Wagoneer on e-Bay. This link should take you to his listing: http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=4552789712&ssPageName=ADME:B:EF:US:1
Good luck with the sale, Pete.
Scott and sons arrived in the middle of the night. So far, Jalen has played with his new Play Station game which he got for his Green Frogs school record. Brayden is glued to his daddy and will have nothing to do with anyone except daddy and Granny.
Friday, May 27, 2005
Tuesday, May 24, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
Yesterday, Dan and Stef and Jacob called for me at lunch time. They brought crabmeat (cooked, cleaned, and ready to eat; they had stayed up til 1:30 am preparing!), slaw, biscuits, honey for all of us to eat with Den. It was a rare feast. [Later I brought the leftovers home where Rose, Chris, and I for the first time in our lives had ALL the crabmeat we could eat. Usually we get tired of cracking them long before our appetite is sated.]
We had a wonderful time with the Schmidts. They had made an album for Den of photos from a trip Den and I made with them to their Florida condo in 1998. It was hard to say which was the better--the company, the food, or the photos. Thanks, You Schmidts, for your thoughtfulness!
On Sunday evening Kim and Aaron came over for a family meeting to discuss Den's needs and our responses/schedules over the next few weeks. Our goal is to provide him with as much physical and emotional comfort as possible. Of course, there are practical aspects, like laundry, that we also share responsibility for.
My former Springfield neighbor, Leslie, surprised us with an announcement of her pending marriage to "that King Boy," as brother Joe calls him. In this small world, Sam King has Marshfield relatives whom Joe knows. We are very happy for Leslie and Sam. They are an adorable couple. Also, Leslie's younger son Chase is graduating from high school. He will go to Denver in the Fall for college. Leslie's older son Jeffrey is in the army and is in Fort Lewis, Washington, which is a long way from Iraq where he was stationed for a year.
There is another saga of illness in the Boaz Family. Lari, Den's only sister and the baby of the family, had an emergency appendectomy about ten days ago. She developed a severe infection after her release from the hospital and had to be readmitted for additional surgeries. Her daughter's wedding was on Saturday, and Lari was unable to attend. Saturday night she became ever sicker and was for a time in intensive care. Yesterday we heard she was mending but still very ill. All this family illness is extremely hard on Evelyn, Den's mother, who is 83 years old. Thank goodness, she still enjoys robust health.
We have had the pleasure of Chris' company more than usual lately because he has been networking and setting up wireless internet connections with a central printer for us. It is all complete now, and the rat's nest of wires, cables, etc., is much reduced. I wonder where Chris learned all this stuff. He and Rose also did much consultation on various gardening issues. Turns out, Chris also has his dad's green thumb.
Yesterday, Dan and Stef and Jacob called for me at lunch time. They brought crabmeat (cooked, cleaned, and ready to eat; they had stayed up til 1:30 am preparing!), slaw, biscuits, honey for all of us to eat with Den. It was a rare feast. [Later I brought the leftovers home where Rose, Chris, and I for the first time in our lives had ALL the crabmeat we could eat. Usually we get tired of cracking them long before our appetite is sated.]
We had a wonderful time with the Schmidts. They had made an album for Den of photos from a trip Den and I made with them to their Florida condo in 1998. It was hard to say which was the better--the company, the food, or the photos. Thanks, You Schmidts, for your thoughtfulness!
On Sunday evening Kim and Aaron came over for a family meeting to discuss Den's needs and our responses/schedules over the next few weeks. Our goal is to provide him with as much physical and emotional comfort as possible. Of course, there are practical aspects, like laundry, that we also share responsibility for.
My former Springfield neighbor, Leslie, surprised us with an announcement of her pending marriage to "that King Boy," as brother Joe calls him. In this small world, Sam King has Marshfield relatives whom Joe knows. We are very happy for Leslie and Sam. They are an adorable couple. Also, Leslie's younger son Chase is graduating from high school. He will go to Denver in the Fall for college. Leslie's older son Jeffrey is in the army and is in Fort Lewis, Washington, which is a long way from Iraq where he was stationed for a year.
There is another saga of illness in the Boaz Family. Lari, Den's only sister and the baby of the family, had an emergency appendectomy about ten days ago. She developed a severe infection after her release from the hospital and had to be readmitted for additional surgeries. Her daughter's wedding was on Saturday, and Lari was unable to attend. Saturday night she became ever sicker and was for a time in intensive care. Yesterday we heard she was mending but still very ill. All this family illness is extremely hard on Evelyn, Den's mother, who is 83 years old. Thank goodness, she still enjoys robust health.
We have had the pleasure of Chris' company more than usual lately because he has been networking and setting up wireless internet connections with a central printer for us. It is all complete now, and the rat's nest of wires, cables, etc., is much reduced. I wonder where Chris learned all this stuff. He and Rose also did much consultation on various gardening issues. Turns out, Chris also has his dad's green thumb.
Saturday, May 21, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
I just opened this chatty, loving, informative, uplifting e-mail from Sandi, Bernie and Maudi's fourth child, and am so happy to be able to share it:
"Hi All!
This is Sandi visiting with the folks in Spokane at the farm. I'm here for a week and happy to move life to their pace - I actually have time to catch up on the blog and my emails!!
So sorry to hear about Uncle Denny! It was just a year ago that Tammy and I were there and he was out in the garage listening to the ball game and cooking up the fish fry for all of us. He is definately in my prayers as you all are.
Life here is just great! I have been busy getting my garden in at home, (Portland). The weather has been cooperating and I have been working somewhat to compete with Uncle Norman's garden. I remember turning green (with envy, not gardening savy...) when I saw how far along his garden was when I was there last April. So far, my tomatoes are knee high and my green beans are close behind.
My nephew, Matthew, who is eight years old, (Steve's son) and I are working together on the garden. In his spot he has strawberries, turnips, sugar peas, a cherry tomato, carrots and forget-me-nots. What a combination. I had to thin the turnips b/c he over seeded and so now Dad has some for his supper in Mom's garden spot here.
Next weekend on Memorial Day, I'll travel to Seattle to spend a couple of days with Doug & Cecile. Mom & Dad are arriving as well, and so I'll be chauffeur for Dad's doctor's appointment at the VA there. They are evaluating his heart to determine if he is strong enough to endure a roto-rootering of the artery in his right leg. The "real" doctors say he is strong enough, but so far the VA in Spokane says they aren't certain. (Dad just thinks they don't want to pay for it...) I'm hoping for his sake, they give him the green light and pay for it and most importantly, that his heart is strong enough. After all, the Old Guy will be 77 in June!
Mom is doing well. She is a soldier! She takes care of all of still. I'm hoping to give her a break so she can go to a salon for a little pampering. They will be leaving on Friday, the 27th to go camping with their friends and then on to Seattle. As usual, Mom gets the 5th-wheel ready, packs the Old Guy into the truck, drives all the way and then cooks up dinner and tucks him into bed. I admire her so much. She does all this with joy and a light heart. (I want to be like her when I grow up!)
I don't want to talk your ears (eyes) off! I miss you and think of you often! I love the pictures and all the news on the blog. Thank you so much for keeping it going!
Please say hi to the family for me! Best wishes to Dave and Sabrina as Dave has the knee surgery. He's too young to be falling apart!
Thanks again for having us last spring. (Happy birthday again Aunt Sue!! XOXOXOXO) I wish we were closer.
Gotta run!
Love,
Sandi"
Last year when Sandi and Tammy abd others travelled so far to come for my big birthday bash, I was deeply touched. We made big plans with Sandi and Tammy to meet up in Chicago later in the year, but, alas, time and trouble got in the way. Some time we still would like to do that, but it won't be for a while.
Mother's 100th birthday is May 1, 2006. That might be a fine time for her progeny to get together somewhere to celebrate this remarkable woman who is THE SOURCE for a lot of the wonderful people we all know, like Sandi. I would love to hear someone take up the challenge to put together a 100th birthday party. I would do it myself were I able.
I just opened this chatty, loving, informative, uplifting e-mail from Sandi, Bernie and Maudi's fourth child, and am so happy to be able to share it:
"Hi All!
This is Sandi visiting with the folks in Spokane at the farm. I'm here for a week and happy to move life to their pace - I actually have time to catch up on the blog and my emails!!
So sorry to hear about Uncle Denny! It was just a year ago that Tammy and I were there and he was out in the garage listening to the ball game and cooking up the fish fry for all of us. He is definately in my prayers as you all are.
Life here is just great! I have been busy getting my garden in at home, (Portland). The weather has been cooperating and I have been working somewhat to compete with Uncle Norman's garden. I remember turning green (with envy, not gardening savy...) when I saw how far along his garden was when I was there last April. So far, my tomatoes are knee high and my green beans are close behind.
My nephew, Matthew, who is eight years old, (Steve's son) and I are working together on the garden. In his spot he has strawberries, turnips, sugar peas, a cherry tomato, carrots and forget-me-nots. What a combination. I had to thin the turnips b/c he over seeded and so now Dad has some for his supper in Mom's garden spot here.
Next weekend on Memorial Day, I'll travel to Seattle to spend a couple of days with Doug & Cecile. Mom & Dad are arriving as well, and so I'll be chauffeur for Dad's doctor's appointment at the VA there. They are evaluating his heart to determine if he is strong enough to endure a roto-rootering of the artery in his right leg. The "real" doctors say he is strong enough, but so far the VA in Spokane says they aren't certain. (Dad just thinks they don't want to pay for it...) I'm hoping for his sake, they give him the green light and pay for it and most importantly, that his heart is strong enough. After all, the Old Guy will be 77 in June!
Mom is doing well. She is a soldier! She takes care of all of still. I'm hoping to give her a break so she can go to a salon for a little pampering. They will be leaving on Friday, the 27th to go camping with their friends and then on to Seattle. As usual, Mom gets the 5th-wheel ready, packs the Old Guy into the truck, drives all the way and then cooks up dinner and tucks him into bed. I admire her so much. She does all this with joy and a light heart. (I want to be like her when I grow up!)
I don't want to talk your ears (eyes) off! I miss you and think of you often! I love the pictures and all the news on the blog. Thank you so much for keeping it going!
Please say hi to the family for me! Best wishes to Dave and Sabrina as Dave has the knee surgery. He's too young to be falling apart!
Thanks again for having us last spring. (Happy birthday again Aunt Sue!! XOXOXOXO) I wish we were closer.
Gotta run!
Love,
Sandi"
Last year when Sandi and Tammy abd others travelled so far to come for my big birthday bash, I was deeply touched. We made big plans with Sandi and Tammy to meet up in Chicago later in the year, but, alas, time and trouble got in the way. Some time we still would like to do that, but it won't be for a while.
Mother's 100th birthday is May 1, 2006. That might be a fine time for her progeny to get together somewhere to celebrate this remarkable woman who is THE SOURCE for a lot of the wonderful people we all know, like Sandi. I would love to hear someone take up the challenge to put together a 100th birthday party. I would do it myself were I able.
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
It's Rose here. Brother Joe sent me this e-mail:
"Sue & Rose treated me royally during our brief visit at the lake. We need to use Pete's credit more often.
It is a challenge to put the details in writing but to make it short & sweet & using more Turnbo speech, "A good time was enjoyed by all!"
Sue can shenny up & down those steps as well or better than I can"
It's Rose here. Brother Joe sent me this e-mail:
"Sue & Rose treated me royally during our brief visit at the lake. We need to use Pete's credit more often.
It is a challenge to put the details in writing but to make it short & sweet & using more Turnbo speech, "A good time was enjoyed by all!"
Sue can shenny up & down those steps as well or better than I can"
Friday, May 20, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
More bad news about Den. We took him to see the oncologist on Tuesday. The oncologist's recommendation, seconded by Den's primary care physician, is that he receive no treatment for his liver cancer. There are several masses in his liver at this point which means, given his overall condition, there is no feasible treatment.
I am looking into hospice care where the goal is to provide Den as fine a quality of life as possible while making sure he is comfortable and not in pain. Barnes Jewish Extended Care Facility, where Den has been living since December, is a place where he can receive hospice care without any disruption in his now familiar and excellent surroundings. It is the finest place of its kind I've ever seen, and the staff are both competent and extremely compassionate.
Den's one desire, when told of his situation, was "to go fishing at the lake." Dr. Wilkins will not allow him to travel that far but said some local fishing would be fine. Of course, we will try to arrange fishing outings when Den is up to it.
On a lighter note, Rose and I made a whirlwind trip to the lake on Wednesday afternoon, returning Thursday afternoon. We had invited Brother Joe to join for a birthday dinner in his honor, but he had said he had to take the dog to the groomer. We suggested he throw the dog into the Turnbow Creek and come ahead. [It was always good enough for our dogs. ] Sure enough, Joe arrived Wednesday just a short time after we did. We went to our local fine restaurant which has great food and a wondrous view over the lake. The waitress even rustled up a birthday cake with candles--not nearly enough candles even though Joe told her he was 39. It was good that we had Pete's credit card so that we could treat Joe for a change.
The three of us spent the night at the lake house. Joe left very early to get the dog TO THE GROOMER for his 10:00 appointment. Rose and I came home in the early afternoon, arriving in time for the meeting with Den's physician, Dr. Wilkins, at the facility.
Shirley has been in London, Ontario, all week at a workshop on working with dreams in groups. She returns this evening. Rose and I will call for her at the airport.
Last night while Rose held her readings class, I spent time with Den until the facility closed. Chris and Shelly called for me, and the three of us had a fine dinner at Macaroni Grill. I've been eating high on the hog in recent days thanks to relatives. Margaret last weekend made wilted lettuce, a treat I had not had in over 40 years.
I spent the greater part of Tuesday in Dr. Dooley's office having my third round of immuno-globulin infusion. Unbeknownst to us, Mary Myers, a long-time friend, was next door in St. Luke's Hospital recovering from heart surgery. She didn't let us know she was even ill until she came home from a two-week hospital stay. For those of you who know Mary, she is indeed a walking miracle, having survived very serious illnesses over a period of several decades. For th past ten years, Mary had been fairly healthy until this episode. We are relieved to hear this crisis is behind her.
In writing this update, I'm keenly aware of just what a whirlwind week this has been. And just when I didn't think things could get any worse, they did. If anyone has comments or news they want posted, please either send us an e-mail or click on the "comments" icon and add your information.
More bad news about Den. We took him to see the oncologist on Tuesday. The oncologist's recommendation, seconded by Den's primary care physician, is that he receive no treatment for his liver cancer. There are several masses in his liver at this point which means, given his overall condition, there is no feasible treatment.
I am looking into hospice care where the goal is to provide Den as fine a quality of life as possible while making sure he is comfortable and not in pain. Barnes Jewish Extended Care Facility, where Den has been living since December, is a place where he can receive hospice care without any disruption in his now familiar and excellent surroundings. It is the finest place of its kind I've ever seen, and the staff are both competent and extremely compassionate.
Den's one desire, when told of his situation, was "to go fishing at the lake." Dr. Wilkins will not allow him to travel that far but said some local fishing would be fine. Of course, we will try to arrange fishing outings when Den is up to it.
On a lighter note, Rose and I made a whirlwind trip to the lake on Wednesday afternoon, returning Thursday afternoon. We had invited Brother Joe to join for a birthday dinner in his honor, but he had said he had to take the dog to the groomer. We suggested he throw the dog into the Turnbow Creek and come ahead. [It was always good enough for our dogs. ] Sure enough, Joe arrived Wednesday just a short time after we did. We went to our local fine restaurant which has great food and a wondrous view over the lake. The waitress even rustled up a birthday cake with candles--not nearly enough candles even though Joe told her he was 39. It was good that we had Pete's credit card so that we could treat Joe for a change.
The three of us spent the night at the lake house. Joe left very early to get the dog TO THE GROOMER for his 10:00 appointment. Rose and I came home in the early afternoon, arriving in time for the meeting with Den's physician, Dr. Wilkins, at the facility.
Shirley has been in London, Ontario, all week at a workshop on working with dreams in groups. She returns this evening. Rose and I will call for her at the airport.
Last night while Rose held her readings class, I spent time with Den until the facility closed. Chris and Shelly called for me, and the three of us had a fine dinner at Macaroni Grill. I've been eating high on the hog in recent days thanks to relatives. Margaret last weekend made wilted lettuce, a treat I had not had in over 40 years.
I spent the greater part of Tuesday in Dr. Dooley's office having my third round of immuno-globulin infusion. Unbeknownst to us, Mary Myers, a long-time friend, was next door in St. Luke's Hospital recovering from heart surgery. She didn't let us know she was even ill until she came home from a two-week hospital stay. For those of you who know Mary, she is indeed a walking miracle, having survived very serious illnesses over a period of several decades. For th past ten years, Mary had been fairly healthy until this episode. We are relieved to hear this crisis is behind her.
In writing this update, I'm keenly aware of just what a whirlwind week this has been. And just when I didn't think things could get any worse, they did. If anyone has comments or news they want posted, please either send us an e-mail or click on the "comments" icon and add your information.
Friday, May 13, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
We are happy to report that Dave Smith's angiogram showed minimal blockage and no treatment will be required. He has been cleared to get his bum knee repaired which he will have done ASAP.
After a long day of waiting, Den was released from Barnes-Jewish Hospital around 5:00 pm yesterday. He returned by ambulance to the extended care facility. His pain level is much reduced. While in hospital he had a bad fall, cut his ear, and bruised his backside. Part of his on-going suffering is from this new injury. The vertebroplasty procedure seems to have worked as advertised, but only time will truly tell.
When the ambulance arrived at the facility, Rose and I were sitting in the veranda to meet Den. He was one happy puppy to be back at a place that feels like home to him. Our plan is for Den to see an oncologist and a helpatologist next Wednesday at the Oncology Department at St. Louis University Hospital. Den's physical rehabilitation visits are on hold for now.
Scott just called to tell us that Brayden said very clearly, "I want to go see Rose." Of course, this tickled Rose, and she has been grinning from ear to ear ever since. Brayden has certain expressions that he delights in saying: "Hi, Pete!" "Papa Denny," "Bug," "Lake House," "Bubba," "Come on!" "Outside." His new one is "Yeah," which Scott says he uses even when he really means no. The little guy is afraid of bugs, even ants, but Scott says he is fearless in the face of big, strange dogs. When he's here, he sticks his head through the fence of our neighbor's yard to kiss her dog.
We are happy to report that Dave Smith's angiogram showed minimal blockage and no treatment will be required. He has been cleared to get his bum knee repaired which he will have done ASAP.
After a long day of waiting, Den was released from Barnes-Jewish Hospital around 5:00 pm yesterday. He returned by ambulance to the extended care facility. His pain level is much reduced. While in hospital he had a bad fall, cut his ear, and bruised his backside. Part of his on-going suffering is from this new injury. The vertebroplasty procedure seems to have worked as advertised, but only time will truly tell.
When the ambulance arrived at the facility, Rose and I were sitting in the veranda to meet Den. He was one happy puppy to be back at a place that feels like home to him. Our plan is for Den to see an oncologist and a helpatologist next Wednesday at the Oncology Department at St. Louis University Hospital. Den's physical rehabilitation visits are on hold for now.
Scott just called to tell us that Brayden said very clearly, "I want to go see Rose." Of course, this tickled Rose, and she has been grinning from ear to ear ever since. Brayden has certain expressions that he delights in saying: "Hi, Pete!" "Papa Denny," "Bug," "Lake House," "Bubba," "Come on!" "Outside." His new one is "Yeah," which Scott says he uses even when he really means no. The little guy is afraid of bugs, even ants, but Scott says he is fearless in the face of big, strange dogs. When he's here, he sticks his head through the fence of our neighbor's yard to kiss her dog.
Thursday, May 12, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
Den came through the procedure just fine. He did have to have plasma as a precaution because his blood is so thin, but other than that, it was SOP. By last evening his pain level had gone from a week-long self-report of "10" to "5". He called early this morning, ready to go back to the facility. Today his pain level is somewhere between "1" and "5" so the vertebroplasty did what it was designed to do: stabilize the crushed bone and reduce the pain level. As soon as the doctors release him this morning, he will return to the extended care facility.
Today Dave Smith, Sabrina's husband, is scheduled for his angiogram. We trust it will turn out well and will post information as we get it.
We've been getting "Kid Reports" from Scott. Jalen got no yellow frogs in all of April and so far all of May. With only 11 days of school left, he is working for a perfect record. When we asked him last visit how he was able to improve April so much, he said, "I just quit talking when I wasn't supposed to talk." He and his dad have a deal where he gets rewarded for a full month of green frogs. The deal is working wonders.
Scott says Brayden is almost 'house broke,' as Joe would call it. We love it when Brayden wants to call Granny. He calls, jabbers a bit, then says "Bye, Inny!" Scotts believes he knows exactly what he is saying but noone else does.
Den came through the procedure just fine. He did have to have plasma as a precaution because his blood is so thin, but other than that, it was SOP. By last evening his pain level had gone from a week-long self-report of "10" to "5". He called early this morning, ready to go back to the facility. Today his pain level is somewhere between "1" and "5" so the vertebroplasty did what it was designed to do: stabilize the crushed bone and reduce the pain level. As soon as the doctors release him this morning, he will return to the extended care facility.
Today Dave Smith, Sabrina's husband, is scheduled for his angiogram. We trust it will turn out well and will post information as we get it.
We've been getting "Kid Reports" from Scott. Jalen got no yellow frogs in all of April and so far all of May. With only 11 days of school left, he is working for a perfect record. When we asked him last visit how he was able to improve April so much, he said, "I just quit talking when I wasn't supposed to talk." He and his dad have a deal where he gets rewarded for a full month of green frogs. The deal is working wonders.
Scott says Brayden is almost 'house broke,' as Joe would call it. We love it when Brayden wants to call Granny. He calls, jabbers a bit, then says "Bye, Inny!" Scotts believes he knows exactly what he is saying but noone else does.
Wednesday, May 11, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
Wednesday, May 11, 2005, 11:30 am
Den is having the vertebroplasty procedure this morning. He should be in recovery around noon, will have to spend another night in the hospital, and can return to the facility tomorrow. He was pretty much out of it before he went into the operating room because of pain, oxy-contin, and his generally poor condition. Sue is waiting outside O.R., and the physicians have promised to come talk with her immediately after they finish.
More when we know more.
Wednesday, May 11, 2005, 11:30 am
Den is having the vertebroplasty procedure this morning. He should be in recovery around noon, will have to spend another night in the hospital, and can return to the facility tomorrow. He was pretty much out of it before he went into the operating room because of pain, oxy-contin, and his generally poor condition. Sue is waiting outside O.R., and the physicians have promised to come talk with her immediately after they finish.
More when we know more.
Tuesday, May 10, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
It's Rose with a brief update. Tuesday morning Den was taken by ambulance from the extended care facility where he is in residence to Barnes-Jewish Hospital for the vertebroplasty. One issue that has to be resolved before he can have the procedure is his blood viscosity. He is on a blood thinner to prevent strokes and that makes his blood too thin to risk the procedure. So, the first order of business is to get his blood where the physician wants it.
This morning he had further tests, and is scheduled now for the vertebroplasty at 9:00 am tomorrow. He is still in a lot of pain, but told the doctor he was not because he "just wants out of this place." His physicians are giving him oxy-contin (yes, Rush's drug) for pain relief. He fell this morning, so now has to have a 'sitter' with him to make sure he stays in bed.
This is all very hard on Sue and on Den's kids. Sue has hardly left Den's bedside and has to be dragged away when she does. Getting to the hospital is much more difficult than getting to the extended care facility which is just minutes from our house. So far, we've managed all the logistics just fine.
The plan now is for Den to be released on Thursday to return to the facility. But, you know how plans are: "The best laid plans of mice and men . . . " Guess the same is true for mice and women.
We'll post more when we know more. Thanks for all the prayers, phone calls, and thoughtful gestures. And special thanks to Catrina who has answered untold insurance questions surrounding these new developments.
On a brighter note, Sunday Sue and I went to Chris and Shelly's for their Mother's Day Brunch. They are THE host and hostess. We had a grand time, especially visiting with JoAnn and Kathleen, Shelly's mother and auntie. The two daughters and granddaughter were observing their first Mother's Day without Gram, and they turned it into a fine occasion of remembrance.
Of course, the decorations and the food and the drink were the finest. In Greenwood parlance, a good time was had by all.
The Abbott Clan all descended on #4 Peg Elaine on Mother's Day where they planted Margaret's flower beds, hanging pots, and installed a new innovation made by Robbie and contributed to by all the siblings. We are eager to see this new installation of Missouri wild flowers.
It's Rose with a brief update. Tuesday morning Den was taken by ambulance from the extended care facility where he is in residence to Barnes-Jewish Hospital for the vertebroplasty. One issue that has to be resolved before he can have the procedure is his blood viscosity. He is on a blood thinner to prevent strokes and that makes his blood too thin to risk the procedure. So, the first order of business is to get his blood where the physician wants it.
This morning he had further tests, and is scheduled now for the vertebroplasty at 9:00 am tomorrow. He is still in a lot of pain, but told the doctor he was not because he "just wants out of this place." His physicians are giving him oxy-contin (yes, Rush's drug) for pain relief. He fell this morning, so now has to have a 'sitter' with him to make sure he stays in bed.
This is all very hard on Sue and on Den's kids. Sue has hardly left Den's bedside and has to be dragged away when she does. Getting to the hospital is much more difficult than getting to the extended care facility which is just minutes from our house. So far, we've managed all the logistics just fine.
The plan now is for Den to be released on Thursday to return to the facility. But, you know how plans are: "The best laid plans of mice and men . . . " Guess the same is true for mice and women.
We'll post more when we know more. Thanks for all the prayers, phone calls, and thoughtful gestures. And special thanks to Catrina who has answered untold insurance questions surrounding these new developments.
On a brighter note, Sunday Sue and I went to Chris and Shelly's for their Mother's Day Brunch. They are THE host and hostess. We had a grand time, especially visiting with JoAnn and Kathleen, Shelly's mother and auntie. The two daughters and granddaughter were observing their first Mother's Day without Gram, and they turned it into a fine occasion of remembrance.
Of course, the decorations and the food and the drink were the finest. In Greenwood parlance, a good time was had by all.
The Abbott Clan all descended on #4 Peg Elaine on Mother's Day where they planted Margaret's flower beds, hanging pots, and installed a new innovation made by Robbie and contributed to by all the siblings. We are eager to see this new installation of Missouri wild flowers.
Saturday, May 07, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
This has not been a good week. On Tuesday, Kim and I went to see Dr. Bacon, Den's gastroenterologist who is the man heading up the team which was evaluating Den for a possible liver transplant. Den didn't go to this appointment because he was down the street having an MRI to determine the extent of injury to his back.
Dr. Bacon had very bad news. Den is not a candidate for a liver transplant because his liver cancer is too far advanced. Bacon could not tell us if radiation or chemotherapy would do any good. Den will see an oncologist next Wednesday, May 11, if he is up to it.
Meanwhile the MRI confirmed Den has a compression fracture in the L-1 Vertebra and a hematoma of the L-11 Vertebra, both of which mean a great of pain. The MRI also showed there is no sign of cancer in the spine, some good news.
The next step will be for Den to have a procedure called vertebraplasty to reduce the intense pain from the compression fracture. Dr. Wilkins, Den's primary care physician at the extended care facility, has given us extensive information about the procedure. It takes about an hour under a local anesthetic with pain relief expected within 24-48 hours. It will require an overnight hospital stay. The procedure is the insertion of a needle into the crushed bone and injection of bone cement to shore up and stabilize the collapsed vertebra. We don't yet know when he will have the procedure, but Dr. Wilkins understands the urgency and she stresses the need to have it done ASAP.
One of the difficulties in getting the procedure done this past week is that Den would not agree to it because he thought it would interfere with his chances for a more immediate liver transplant. Now, given the new circumstances and his continuing pain level, he has agreed with Dr. Wilkins' recommendation.
Dr. Wilkins and I broke the news to Den that he is not a candidate for a liver transplant on Thursday. Given his pain, his confusion caused both by build-up of ammonia from a poorly-functioning liver and by narcotic pain medications, he didn't fully register the implications of our message. Perhaps that is a blessing, though a horrible one.
Thank God for family and friends! I don't know what Den and I would do without Rose, Shirley, Chris, Scott, Margaret and Norm, Catrina, the Hollensbes, and others who have been so steadfast through these months of hell.
This has not been a good week. On Tuesday, Kim and I went to see Dr. Bacon, Den's gastroenterologist who is the man heading up the team which was evaluating Den for a possible liver transplant. Den didn't go to this appointment because he was down the street having an MRI to determine the extent of injury to his back.
Dr. Bacon had very bad news. Den is not a candidate for a liver transplant because his liver cancer is too far advanced. Bacon could not tell us if radiation or chemotherapy would do any good. Den will see an oncologist next Wednesday, May 11, if he is up to it.
Meanwhile the MRI confirmed Den has a compression fracture in the L-1 Vertebra and a hematoma of the L-11 Vertebra, both of which mean a great of pain. The MRI also showed there is no sign of cancer in the spine, some good news.
The next step will be for Den to have a procedure called vertebraplasty to reduce the intense pain from the compression fracture. Dr. Wilkins, Den's primary care physician at the extended care facility, has given us extensive information about the procedure. It takes about an hour under a local anesthetic with pain relief expected within 24-48 hours. It will require an overnight hospital stay. The procedure is the insertion of a needle into the crushed bone and injection of bone cement to shore up and stabilize the collapsed vertebra. We don't yet know when he will have the procedure, but Dr. Wilkins understands the urgency and she stresses the need to have it done ASAP.
One of the difficulties in getting the procedure done this past week is that Den would not agree to it because he thought it would interfere with his chances for a more immediate liver transplant. Now, given the new circumstances and his continuing pain level, he has agreed with Dr. Wilkins' recommendation.
Dr. Wilkins and I broke the news to Den that he is not a candidate for a liver transplant on Thursday. Given his pain, his confusion caused both by build-up of ammonia from a poorly-functioning liver and by narcotic pain medications, he didn't fully register the implications of our message. Perhaps that is a blessing, though a horrible one.
Thank God for family and friends! I don't know what Den and I would do without Rose, Shirley, Chris, Scott, Margaret and Norm, Catrina, the Hollensbes, and others who have been so steadfast through these months of hell.
Wednesday, May 04, 2005
You can reach Sue at (314) 452-3685 or (314) 726-2032. You can write to her c/o Rose Holt, 905 Barnard College Lane, St. Louis, MO 63130
Thanks, Chris (aka Ding) for your thorough update. About grocery shopping with you, my sympathies lie totally with Shelly. She would be smart just to leave you at home with the dogs. However, I did enjoy our outing immensely even though I had to veto some of your suggestions.
To our Other Readers: Chris and I spent Thursday going to various places, one of which was their home to meet Oliver. Chris wanted Oliver to meet his grandmother. Rose and I were touched at hearing some of the detail of Gonzo's significance to Shelly and to Chris. Oliver is a beautiful, beautiful dog, and I'm glad to hear he has been restored to puppy health and mischief.
Chris gave a pretty thorough update of our weekend. Den especially enjoyed the fishing and the company--until he took his nasty fall. The Hollensbes were there, Mark Goldman, Maddog Lynch, Scott, Sherry, and boys, and Den and I. We ate well and really enjoyed the four young children. The two younger ones, Josie and Brayden, played well together as did the two older ones, Lucas and Jalen. Doug and Den fished for several hours on Saturday. They said they caught 20 crappie. It was a good mess of fish even though you can't believe fishermen.
Our good time ended abruptly on Sunday. After Den's fall, we spent the rest of the day in the emergency room at Lake Regional Hospital. Den has a compression fracture which is causing him a lot of pain. Late afternoon on Sunday, the Lake Hospital physician released him for the drive back to St. Louis but only with a back brace and some powerful pain medication.
On Tuesday Den had an MRI, and we don't yet know the results. He is still in pain and forced to lie perfectly flat. This is quite a setback, and we don't yet know all the ramifications of it. This week we've had to cancel his various physican appointments and his physical therapy. We'll wait to see what happens next.
Thanks, Chris (aka Ding) for your thorough update. About grocery shopping with you, my sympathies lie totally with Shelly. She would be smart just to leave you at home with the dogs. However, I did enjoy our outing immensely even though I had to veto some of your suggestions.
To our Other Readers: Chris and I spent Thursday going to various places, one of which was their home to meet Oliver. Chris wanted Oliver to meet his grandmother. Rose and I were touched at hearing some of the detail of Gonzo's significance to Shelly and to Chris. Oliver is a beautiful, beautiful dog, and I'm glad to hear he has been restored to puppy health and mischief.
Chris gave a pretty thorough update of our weekend. Den especially enjoyed the fishing and the company--until he took his nasty fall. The Hollensbes were there, Mark Goldman, Maddog Lynch, Scott, Sherry, and boys, and Den and I. We ate well and really enjoyed the four young children. The two younger ones, Josie and Brayden, played well together as did the two older ones, Lucas and Jalen. Doug and Den fished for several hours on Saturday. They said they caught 20 crappie. It was a good mess of fish even though you can't believe fishermen.
Our good time ended abruptly on Sunday. After Den's fall, we spent the rest of the day in the emergency room at Lake Regional Hospital. Den has a compression fracture which is causing him a lot of pain. Late afternoon on Sunday, the Lake Hospital physician released him for the drive back to St. Louis but only with a back brace and some powerful pain medication.
On Tuesday Den had an MRI, and we don't yet know the results. He is still in pain and forced to lie perfectly flat. This is quite a setback, and we don't yet know all the ramifications of it. This week we've had to cancel his various physican appointments and his physical therapy. We'll wait to see what happens next.
Tuesday, May 03, 2005
This is Ding with another update. I saw that Mom and Auntie haven't updated in awhile so I thought that I would chime in.
Mom, Denny, and a whole bunch of other people went to the lake on Friday. I couldn't go, but on Thursday Mom and I went grocery shopping for the trip. When Shelly and I go to the grocery store, we usually end up in some sort of disagreement or another. It appears the same with Mama and me as well. Since we got married, I rationalized that these grocery store arguments are all Shelly's fault. Well, it now seems that these disagreements all stem from me being a "cheap bastage".
Apparently, the ceramic floor doug put it looks great. (His first one) Even the part that was so lopsided that he had to do some jackhammering isn't even noticable. A good time was had by all, until Sunday morning. Denny fell in the shower and hurt his back. Much to his urging to the contrary, the ambulance came and took him to the hospital, mostly as a precautionary measure. It turns out that he has a fracture in the L1 vertebrae. They released him, but in about an hour he will have an MRI because they are worried about potential internal bleeding because of his blood thinners. Don't take anything I have stated as gospel because I am at the bottom of the grapevine. I am certain Mom and auntie will update later with more details.
I do want to update you on our pet situation. Gonzo, Shelly's dog and best friend of 15 years, passed away on April 20. She was the best dog I have ever known. On more than one occasion she saved Shelly's life (or at least saved her from severe disfigurement). Gonzo single handedly turned me into a dog person. Nothing against our other dog Tucker, but if that's the dog that Shelly came into my life with, well, I am certain I wouldn't feel the same way about dogs. So last week we went to the pound to find another companion for Tucker and we came away with a 3 month old yellow lab puppy who I named Oliver. For a puppy, especially a lab puppy, he was so calm and docile that I had to make him mine. Two days later he was in the puppy hospital with Parvo. They gave us a 50/50 chance of survival. That was Friday morning. We went to visit him Monday. He was feeling much better. And that calm docile puppy....well, he was just a sick puppy. It's going to be a long training road ahead. I will post some pictures when I get a chance.
Over and Out,
Ding
Sue's Journey Back to Health
Mom, Denny, and a whole bunch of other people went to the lake on Friday. I couldn't go, but on Thursday Mom and I went grocery shopping for the trip. When Shelly and I go to the grocery store, we usually end up in some sort of disagreement or another. It appears the same with Mama and me as well. Since we got married, I rationalized that these grocery store arguments are all Shelly's fault. Well, it now seems that these disagreements all stem from me being a "cheap bastage".
Apparently, the ceramic floor doug put it looks great. (His first one) Even the part that was so lopsided that he had to do some jackhammering isn't even noticable. A good time was had by all, until Sunday morning. Denny fell in the shower and hurt his back. Much to his urging to the contrary, the ambulance came and took him to the hospital, mostly as a precautionary measure. It turns out that he has a fracture in the L1 vertebrae. They released him, but in about an hour he will have an MRI because they are worried about potential internal bleeding because of his blood thinners. Don't take anything I have stated as gospel because I am at the bottom of the grapevine. I am certain Mom and auntie will update later with more details.
I do want to update you on our pet situation. Gonzo, Shelly's dog and best friend of 15 years, passed away on April 20. She was the best dog I have ever known. On more than one occasion she saved Shelly's life (or at least saved her from severe disfigurement). Gonzo single handedly turned me into a dog person. Nothing against our other dog Tucker, but if that's the dog that Shelly came into my life with, well, I am certain I wouldn't feel the same way about dogs. So last week we went to the pound to find another companion for Tucker and we came away with a 3 month old yellow lab puppy who I named Oliver. For a puppy, especially a lab puppy, he was so calm and docile that I had to make him mine. Two days later he was in the puppy hospital with Parvo. They gave us a 50/50 chance of survival. That was Friday morning. We went to visit him Monday. He was feeling much better. And that calm docile puppy....well, he was just a sick puppy. It's going to be a long training road ahead. I will post some pictures when I get a chance.
Over and Out,
Ding
Sue's Journey Back to Health
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